I finally got a picture of Tyler's teeth while he was complaining to me today. And boy did he complain a lot. The only boy that had a really good day today was Cody. Austin became sicker as the day went on, and Tyler was just off his schedule all day which made him unhappy. He took a lot of little naps, which meant that he was just plain tired all day. By lunchtime I knew that we were going to have to go somewhere today. Austin, although he was stuffy and snotty, was acting fine and was getting into trouble from the start. Austin doesn't like Thursdays for the same reason I do: we have nothing scheduled. Every Thursday morning, Austin wakes up and asks, "Mommy do I have school today?" I reply, "No." Next question is, "Do I have gymnastics?" I reply, "Nope"." Then, he usually folds his arms, makes a mad face with a noise like "hmph" and he tells me, "I don't like Thursdays...can we go to Target?" The kid just likes a plan--something do to--something on the calendar...sigh...sadly, he's just like me. BUT, I like Thursdays because there is nothing, and I don't have to rush anywhere and pack up 3 kids if I don't want to. Sometimes that's a good thing, other times it makes for a long dang day. So, after naps I decided that we would go outside, despite the fact that the pollen levels around here were out the roof (Austin's allergies) and despite the fact that Tyler was a grumpy grumpy boy. The minute I pet the boys in the backyard, the fighting began, so I marched them straight back in, and told them to get their shoes, we were going to a park. The kicker with me is, I have not taken the boys to a park by myself since Tyler was born. There are plenty of reasons why, and they all have to do with safety. I am outnumbered, and with the kids being so little, the thought of going to the park makes me nervous. I know some of you might be laughing but put yourself in my shoes. Tyler is in the stroller, Cody is running around trying to climb on very high things and keep up with Austin, and Austin is running off in another direction from Cody and/or screaming mommy! for help doing something. I know as the kids get older this problem will solve itself, but right now, it's still a problem. So, I tried to find a small park where I could keep and eye on both Austin and Cody, while staying close with Tyler on me or in the stroller. I went to a park down the road and the visit was good. Before we even got out of the car, I prepped Austin by giving him some rules. The only one he objected to was the "keep your hands to yourself" rule...he said, "but they (the kids he saw playing on the playgroud) are my friends!" Anyway, only a few times was I in a bind: I was standing by the stroller with Tyler giving him his sippy cup, when I see Cody attempting to climb up this arch ladder thingy behind Austin. Since I couldn't leave Tyler in the stroller that far away, I had to yank him out of the stroller and run to Cody...Cody was about 5 feet in the air before I got to him, and then I had to proceed to untangle him and pull him down from the ladder (he was fighting me on this) with one arm...I barely succeeded. I didn't want to put Tyler down because I didn't want him to start eating wood chips and choking. Another time, I was carrying Tyler around while walking under the playset following the boys above. Cody took it upon himself to jump off the ledge that his brother just jumped off of, and didn't do so well, falling flat on his face from about 3-4 feet up. He came up with a mouth full of mulch, said "ouch" while spitting out wood chips, and after I gave him a good brush off and kissed him were his boo boos were, he was off again. The park I need to find is one the same size as this one, but just with smaller equipment. The age on the sign at the one we were at was for kids ages 5-8. I am making this my mission not only to have a good little park to play at, but because I also want to have Cody's birthday party at a park, and it needs to be one that is not stressful for the parents. In the first pic I posted below, Austin is sad because all of the 'big boy' swings were taken...they came open after I took this and he was happy again! Anyway, on the drive home Austin made it all worthwhile by making this remark: "Mommy, today was a great day."
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